Tuesday, January 8, 2013

A story of a cat

On December 28 after Bert and I had our surgerical follow up appointment when we were told the official pathological results showed no cancer cell was found in any of the tissues or nodes removed, we heard and spot a grey color cat in Mayo Clinic parking garage. The cat was too scared to let us near it. After some failed attempt, we lost the sight and sound of it. We gave up and got on the road disappointedly.

We went back to our hotel to pack and load the car. It was a cold and snowy day. We started our trip cautiously with slow driving and frequent stops. 10 hours after we left the Mayo parking garage and 250 miles later, we stopped at a gas station near Chicago. As soon as Joshua opened the car door, we heard a faint cat meowing again! Bert and I thought we hear things. We called Joshua in and all sat quietly to listen. Long be hold, we all heard a cat meowing right outside of our car. With no cat to be seen anywhere in the gas station, Bert opened the hood of car just to make sure. Guess what he found! The same grey cat was sitting right underneath the engine!

It took us more than 30 minutes to get the cat out of there. Some passbyers told us to call 999 but then we were told they would just kill the cat. Toby finally got it out with some ham and cheese. It turned out to be a very cuddling cat. For the rest of the trip, both Toby and Joshua held it in turn. The cat was scared, but content.

As soon as we got home, he got scared again when Toby accidentially closed the garage door. The cat jumped off Joshua's arms unexpectedly and ran into the darkness of outside. We spent quite some time searching it but no success.

I posted its photos and message to our neighborhood facebook page hoping some would see it....

Two days later, one of our neighbors told us that the cat was in their garage. Unfortunately, it was still too scared to be coaxed out. It went hiding again under the car. The next day we had to let it out of the garage into the wood.

Another two days passed. Another neighbor told us that the cat was on their front porch. We tried again to get it, but failed again.

I prayed it would stay in the neighborhood. I prayed it would keep itself warm at night. I prayed it would come back to us. My prayer was answered on the 9th day when my cat Ali started to hiss at the door. Bert went to check and saw the grey cat right in front of our door. We started to give him food. With patience, we finally got him into the cat carrier and brought it inside.

He has been inside for two days. What a delightful cat!! It loves the dog. We first thought it is Russian Blue, but after I read the description of Russian Blue and Korat, I think it is a Korat which has amber color eyes and heart shaped face. In Thailand where the Korat originally came from, people consider Korat a symbol of good luck. My kids name it "Piston" for it has been in the car engine. I wish to name it "Survivor" - a good lucky symbol of my cancer free diagnoses and its luck to survived the car ride. I now pray it has no micro chip so we can call this cat ours. I think it is a girl:).

Feel like a SURVIVOR!

I can't believe it has been more than 2 weeks since my surgery! I can't say I am having fun, but time surely flies. The first week went by very fast since the whole family was staying in the hotel. We were lucky to find a hotel that has kitchennette, pool and pet friendly. It did not cost us an arm and leg either. Kids stayed in one suite with two queen size beds and a softa bed. Bert and I stayed in a different suite. Like Bert had described, I was so thankful to have that recliner. I think ther reason why we felt time flew by so fast is because, each day, I was making progress on recovery which made us feel like we had lept in time. Before we knew it, the week was over!

I am so thankful to have my family with me. My older kids gave up their time with their friends (especially girl friends) to spend time with Mom and take care of their younger sisters. My younger girls, though they did not fully understand the meaning of the trip, did not have any complaints. They loved to spend time with their brothers. Bert did everything for me. Without his unconditional love, I don't know if I could have survived anything!

I am also thankful to my relatives, friends and coworkers. Although they were not physically with me, I felt their presence all the time. Their prayers have been answered by God. I am cancer free! I am a survivor! I survived the initial diagnosis; I survived telling my family and friends that I had cancer; I survived 5 months of chemo; I survived more than 20 trips to Mayo Clinic; I survived the loss of my hair; I survived the surgery!

I know the road ahead of me will still be rocky for a while as I continue to recovery and go through the process of breast reconstruction. I keep telling myself that good thing does not come over night. It takes patience. It will be a good test of my patience for sure.

However, for now, I am celebrating my life as a survivor!